The holidays are here, which means it’s time to stop playing humble and treat yourself (or your favorite curl-crowned queen) to things that make life softer, easier, and a whole lot prettier. We pulled together the beauty and self-care gifts the internet actually loves (and that we actually use). Think of this as your glow-up starter pack, curated by the Unruly crew.
For Better Sleep & Daily Calm
YFONG Weighted Sleep Mask
If your brain insists on running a full Beyoncé world tour at bedtime, a weighted sleep mask might change your life. Sleep masks can help you fall asleep faster—the gentle pressure over the eyes triggers a relaxation response (similar to a light weighted blanket), which helps the body shift into “rest mode” more quickly. And they can help you stay asleep longer. This one gives you total blackout darkness plus that gentle pressure that tells your nervous system, “Relax, babe.” It helps you fall asleep faster, stay asleep longer, and stop waking up because a car drove by at 3 a.m. The contoured shape keeps it off your lashes—yes, even extensions—and it’s clutch for travel or anytime you’re trying to sleep somewhere that isn’t your own bed.
Feals Gummies
For the friend who has been “fighting for her life” all year or the one who deserves to finally chill, Feals Gummies are a cult-favorite. Their CBD formulas are clean, thoughtfully dosed, and designed to help your body and mind downshift without feeling groggy. Great for Sunday resets, winding down after long days, or gifting someone who could use a little pocket of calm.
For Skin That Stays Glowy Through Winter
NVBOTY LED Face Mask
LED masks are basically the glow-up cheat code. Think of them as the “I want good skin but I’m not doing a 12-step routine” facial. Each light does something different: red light gives you that plump, rested glow; blue light comes for the acne-causing bacteria; orange and near-infrared help calm irritation and even things out. Is it magic? No. But use it a few times a week while you’re binge-watching something messy, and your skin really does start acting brand new—brighter, smoother, less chaotic.
The NVBOTY mask is the one to beat: 400 LEDs, four modes, and a flexible fit that doesn’t make you feel like you’re auditioning for a sci-fi movie. People love that it’s easy, comfortable, and actually does what it claims. It’s the at-home facial upgrade your routine has been low-key begging for.
For Softer, More Hydrated Natural Hair
DENFANY Tabletop Steamer + Pattern Handheld Steamer
If your hair is tired of being “hydrated-ish,” steamers are your new best friend. The DENFANY tabletop steamer is the one natural-girl Reddit swears by. It opens up your cuticle so your deep conditioners and oils actually get inside instead of just sitting on top looking cute. It also doubles as a facial steamer, so we love a multitasker.
If you want something smaller or more targeted, Pattern’s handheld steamer is the girl. It’s lightweight, easy to travel with, and great for refreshing sections or boosting moisture on the go. Just use distilled water so she doesn’t get crusty.
For Faster, Easier Styling
Revlon One-Step Dryer & Styler + L’Ange Le Volume
These blow-dryer brushes are the reason so many naturalistas suddenly have “I didn’t even try that hard” blowouts. The Revlon is the OG—affordable, powerful, and iconic for stretching type-4 hair fast. Perfect before a silk press or anytime you want your hair to behave.
If you want something lighter, quieter, or less tuggy, L’Ange Le Volume is your girl. She’s gentler, glides through longer hair, and won’t have your arms feeling like you just did an upper-body workout. Both will have you out the door faster and looking like someone who knows what she’s doing.
For Effortless Transformations
Hairvivi Glueless Wig
If you want a wig that doesn’t fight you, doesn’t embarrass you, and doesn’t require a cosmetology license to install, Hairvivi is it. The lace looks real, the density looks natural, and the hairline comes pre-plucked and pre-bleached so you’re not standing over your sink with tweezers and regret. With proper care, these wigs can last up to two years, and the $300–$600 range gives luxury without the luxury tax. Perfect for protective styling or when you just want to switch up your vibe with zero effort. Read our deep dive into glueless wigs here or our round up of glueless wig brands.
For Beautiful, Thoughtful Self-Care Moments
If you’re leaning into your soft season, these are the gems that help you stay there. Think nourishing, calming, feel-good picks that add a little moment of joy to your everyday routine.
Henry Rose Perfumes (Discovery Set)
A non-toxic perfume line that smells expensive in a “grown and unbothered” way. The discovery set lets you try everything and gives you credit toward a full bottle. It’s the “I’m outside, but in a classy way” gift.
The Blotting Compact
Invented by a Black woman, and honestly genius, Lalais blotting compact is a reusable oil-absorbing ball that soaks up shine without messing up your makeup. Great for long days, oily girlies, or anyone who likes their face matte but not flat.
Le Balm Solid Serum
Sixty-eight active ingredients in one tiny, chic salve? Yes, please. Invented by a French pharmacist, Le Balm is hydrating, soothing, and perfect for winter skin that’s been minding everybody’s business but its own.
Waka Waka: Contemporary African Life, Culture & Landscape
This stunning photo book feels like traveling without leaving your couch. It’s vibrant, intimate, and the kind of gift people keep on their coffee table forever because it’s that beautiful.
Whether you’re gifting or self-gifting (our favorite holiday tradition), one or more 😉 of the gifts on this list will help lean into rest, beauty, softness, and joy. If you pick something up, tag us @wetheunruly. We want to see your cozy, glowy moments.
Here’s to softness, glow-ups, and healthy curls in 2025 and beyond.
